Happy New Year! I hope your holidays were filled with love and joy. I want to take this opportunity to express my sincere thanks to all of you for making beatitudes Campus the wonderful, spirit-filled community it is. Your warmth and compassion for each other is inspiring. Your wisdom has taught me so much about living life to its fullest. You have blessed me with the lifelong gift of your friendship. Thank you!
Now that 2019 is upon us, many of us have resolved to change some of our “bad” habits and replace them with “good” habits. How did the tradition of New Year's resolution even start? Some 4,000 years ago, the Babylonians rang in their new year by making promises to the gods in hopes they would earn good favor in the coming year. They often resolved to return borrowed items and get out of debt. The Romans began each year by making promises to the god Janus. During the Middle Ages, knights would renew their vows to chivalry and uphold the values of knighthood by placing their hand on a live or roasted peacock.
Things have come a long way since then! Modern new year's resolutions became “a thing” in the 19th century. The first recorded use of the phrase “new year resolution” appeared in a Boston newspaper in 1813.
The tradition of making resolutions at the beginning of the year certainly can put a lot of stress on us – especially if we don't keep them. Every year, in some way or another, I resolve to be a better person, get healthier, work less, save the world, become smarter, be more philanthropic, become more spiritual, engage more in the world around me – whew – what a tall order! And what a lot of pressure! By the end of the year, I usually haven't fulfilled all of my resolutions in the way I imagined I would in january. Sometimes life doesn't quite go the way I planned it to go. But by bending with the winds of change, I adapt to changing circumstances. But even then, that sometimes means I don't accomplish my New Year's resolutions. What if I could just lighten up a bit and allow myself to live each moment of every day fully – rather than pressuring myself and forcing change and feeling bad when the change doesn't happen?
So, this year, my “un-resolution” is to resolve to get out of my own way and trust that the better version of me will come through when it's ready to do so. I am hoping that taking time off from forcing change through new year's resolutions will open new doors of discovery for me. And I'm excited! 2019 is going to be the best year yet – a year of incredible growth and evolution!
May the new year add a new beauty and freshness in your hearts.*
Get involved!
Comments