Beatitudes Community

Helping Keep Aging Couples Together

One of the things that we are so often asked about by couples visiting Beatitudes Campus and considering their future is about what the future may look like as the years go by. About 70 percent of people over the age of 65 will need some type of long-term care during their lifetime, according to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (DHHS). On average, women will need care for a longer period of time (3.7 years), compared to men (2.2 years), and 20 percent of those age 65 and older will need care for more than five years.

An active, healthy lifestyle can help protect your mind and body from disease and injury—which often leads to a need for long-term care. This is why we offer such a wide range of opportunities through the Life Enrichment department.Mike Smallwood and Jon Schilling are always eager to help you put together individual plans to support that healthy lifestyle. However, there are no guarantees in life and the question of whether—and how long—you or your spouse may need care remains unknown.

Since aging is an individual thing, a couple should not expect that both partners will have the same needs throughout retirement. As a couple ages, one partner may require assisted living or skilled nursing services, while the other partner remains able to live independently.

A continuing care retirement community (CCRC)/lifeplan community can help couples prepare for the challenges that an unknown future may offer. CCRCs provide a continuum of services—from independent living to nursing-home level health care—that is available if and when needed. I often hear Becky Black, our Director of Sales & Marketing, refer to it as “peace of mind” in your back pocket. If, after moving onto the campus, one spouse eventually needs a higher level of health care services, the couple can still be together here at Beatitudes.

Here is an example of how a lifeplan community such as Beatitudes Campus can meet the needs of both partners over time:

Jim and Jane move into an independent living apartment or patio home here at the campus. A few years later, Jane is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. The couple continues to live together for a couple of years, but as Jane’s needs change, she moves into another section of the campus to receive additional care and support. Jim continues to enjoy the social benefits of living within the retirement community and can visit with Jane, who is just a short walk away, whenever he wants.

Those of you who are reading this article as residents – congratulations! You took one of the most significant steps you could in planning for your future. Those who are reading and still considering—our residency counselors can help you take a look at all of the variables and help you develop a plan. Couples who seek peace of mind in the face of uncertainty may want to consider a lifeplan community/CCRC as a viable retirement living choice to ensure that both partners will be taken care of now and in the future. And residents, don’t forget that you can be financially rewarded for sharing the good news with friends and family – your first successful referral will earn you $1,000 and the amounts go up from there. Stop by the sales center to get your referral form and begin earning!

 

WHAT INSPIRES ME TO STAY WELL IS…

EDITOR’S NOTE:  Every sentiment in the various lines submitted by our residents during Active Aging Week 2018 is represented in some way in the following poem.  However, it should be noted that in order to establish unity and harmony in form and content,  it was often necessary to rephrase, combine, or reorder the submitted items.  And this year, because most of the submissions were very short phrases with little description or elaboration (likely because of the way the prompt line was phrased), the items were grouped under introductory phrases, with some verbal nudging provided by the editor.  As always, it is hoped that the result manages to capture and celebrate the collective spirit of our special community.

WHAT INSPIRES ME TO STAY WELL IS…

The love of those dearest to me…
               my family
                                 my wife
                                 my husband
                                my children
                                my grandchildren
                my friends
                                my daily companions
                                my special friend
                my dog, my cat
Loving life and the blessings of each day
                Living in this wonderful world
                                with those dearest to me
                Being with so many friends

Experiencing…
               joy
               creativity 
               success
Feeling the satisfaction of taking good care of myself
                Keeping busy with things I love to do
                                Staying mobile by…
                                                exercising
                                                walking a lot
                                Working in my garden
                                Playing golf
                                Going to Lifelong Learning classes
Hoping to live long enough to…
                hike in the Grand Canyon one more time
                see the re-development of our campus
                see my grandkids make their way in life

Taking delight in…   
               good food
                looking good in my clothes
                good-looking young men
Serving others
                Pleasing those closest to me
Spreading happiness
Sharing my talents
Enjoying a renewed sense of vocation
                                Nursing
                                Teaching
                                Making music
Another chance each day to get it right
Hope for a better tomorrow
                                                                All the above
                                                                and LOVE
Gratitude for
what I bring with me…my nursing background
                                     teaching background
lack of bad health -avoiding serious conditions
living in this wonderful world with Wimpy
my life with Norma
to please Lee
howdy partner

Active Aging Year

It was so fun to celebrate Active Aging Week like we did.  The weeklong events were fun and the culmination of the Street Fair down Central Park Mall was a fiesta and featuring some of the talented crafters and artists among our residents.  But truth be told, every week is active aging week at Beatitudes Campus.  As a matter of fact, it is Active Aging Year at Beatitudes Campus every year.

The International Council on Active Aging wanted the week to challenge society’s diminished expectations of aging by showing that, regardless of age or health conditions, adults over 50 can live as fully as possible in all areas of life—physical, social, spiritual, emotional, intellectual, vocational and environmental. Any given week, all you have to do is look around and you will see those diminished expectations burst before your very eyes.

Look at all the resident run efforts and programs and one quickly sees that nothing could be further from the truth if one thinks that seniors in this senior living community don’t have high expectations of themselves and their abilities to make a difference.  You residents started a campus wide recycling program and continue to guide its success.  You started the Beatitudes Campus Center for Lifelong Learners, now having offered almost 200 classes and enrolling 150 or more each semester.  You serve on Residents Council committees, design and contribute from everything like recreational outings and events to health and wellness programs.  The fitness classes are overflowing and the Fitness Center is rarely empty.  During the summer months, and even in the winter, the folk in the pool are always making waves. 

And it doesn’t stop there!  I am amazed at all of the residents who are volunteering for non-profits off Campus, and with our CAREcorps program even more are volunteering on Campus.  You residents teach new games to each other, start Dart Clubs, run the Pottery Studio and facilitate heady endeavors like Science and Spirituality.  You help in the Gift Shop, run the Beatitudes Backstreet Boutique through the Auxiliary and till the Beatitudes Community Garden making it the envy of every other Life Plan Community. You sing, dance and plan events for your floors and buildings, drawing our community closer and closer together.  When a new resident moves in, you cannot wait to send another welcoming resident to unleash the radical hospitality that makes this community shine.  You volunteer with the schools and teach in our English Language Assistance program (resident run) giving our immigrant brothers and sisters a chance at a better life.

I know I speak for all of us who are fortunate enough to be able to work and serve at Beatitudes Campus when I say that you all are paving the way for the rest of us and inspire us every day.  I only wish your contemporaries knew what you know and do with your lives and see that, if they think a community like ours is for “old people”, then the only thing “old” is their thinking.  You have created a vibrant, energetic, inspiring and anything but inactive community. 

It’s Active Aging Year this year and, thanks to you, will be every year hereafter.*

Our New Program is Beginning!

Stop by Elaine’s on Monday, August 20 at 6PM to hear about the new “Let’s get Acquainted” program that is beginning.  We will be sharing how we see the program running and how folks can get involved.  Refreshments will be provided so be sure to make your way down!

We will be celebrating all August birthdays on Thursday, August 23 at 1PM in the Great Hall.  Gaylan Taylor will be here entertaining with cake and punch provided.  It does not have to be your birthday month to come and boogie, so please come down and celebrate with us!

Are you interested in being a part of the campus’s annual Christmas cards?  If so, submit your painting with a Christmas theme and we will be looking at having your painting published.  For any painting that is used, the owner who submitted it will receive copies of cards for their pleasure.  If you are interested or have questions, call Didi at x18473.  Deadline to submit is the beginning of November.

Do you have an interest in painting?  We have Angie’s Open Paint Class every 2nd and 4th Friday at 2:30PM in the Recreation Center. There is no sign up required, just stop by and join the class. Angie specializes in teaching painting and would love to increase her number of students.  There is no class fee other than bringing your own supplies.  For any questions, call Didi at x18473.  No experience necessary.

Be on the lookout for Active Aging Week material that will show all the events and programs we have scheduled at the end of September. What is Active Aging Week? Every year we join this National Celebration to promote Active Aging through fun, creative and interactive outlets. Learn more at: www.activeagingweek.com/about.php